Memorial website in the memory of your loved one

This memorial is for our loved one Bubba Chipman who passed away unexpectly March 26, 2006; from acute Broncial Pneuonia! Bubba was a wonderful Son, Brother, Grandson, Uncle, Husband, Father and friend to so many. We will never forget you, and you live in each and every one of us. You may be gone but you will NEVER EVER be forgotten...


Thank you all so much for visiting Bubba's site, The girls and I love to see the candles and tributes people leave. It all means his memory is still very much alive not only in us, but others as well. Please take time and look at the entire site. There is  so much under legacy and time line. I try to update as much as I can, sometimes however it is very difficult to even come to this site but I try the best I can.
Don't forget to lite a candle before you leave, to keep Bubba's memory alive. Thank you all so much for all the support.

Krista, Alexis
and Kady Chipman

LOOK HOW BIG ARE BABIES ARE?
Friday March 13, 2009
Kadys Bday party sleep over, this is a photo taken by Lexx friend Manda... did you want to be there for her party? Is this your way of saying you are with us?
the picture on my camera is so much more clear, we see your eyes, bald head EVERYTHING...
thank you for this, I had to share this picture with everyone....
I LOVE YOU




July 24, 2008
Myrtle Beach


5-21-08 BY lEX

My Dearest Angel
You were my husband
my best friend
my one and only true soul mate
we always said
"until the end of time"
Yet,
You decided that wasn't enough
and became my angel
now souring high up above
always watching us close by
I know you're all around me
I feel you everywhere
as the hot sun beats down upon my face
the cool breeze that blows the hair out of my face
at night time
i look to the clear sky
The star I see so very bright
looking upon me during the night
I know it is you looking down on me
your one and only
loving wife.
Krista Chipman
5-14-08



Bubba's best friend was Donnie Martin who passed away 5-95 at the age of 19. Bubba was also very close with his Papaw... They are all watching over us closely.. Alexis loves her new programs so we will be seeing a lot of new graphics =)
5-21-08
March 26, 2008

Two years, seems like an eternity,
I know you watch over us,
and not a day goe's by
that I don't miss you angel.
your spirit will be with me,
forever in my heart.
You are sorely missed and
Always with me
Love you angel,

Mom


My Daddy,
I Miss You
Daddy if I could have you back
There's nothing I wouldnt do
To hear you laugh
Or even to tell me I'm wrong
There's nothing I wouldnt do
Why did you leave this world so soon?
Leave us all alone
Alone without you.
To have you back
There's nothing I wouldnt do
It's so unfair
This world isn't fair
But I want you back
Daddy I need a hug
Need you to wipe the tears away
And there's nothing I wouldnt do
To have you back...
Alexis Chipman

Kady!!!!
Kady loves Hannah Montana. In the show Hannah's mom passed away and she wrote a song for her mother. Kady often signs this song over and over for her daddy. I told Kady I would put it in her daddy's site. so Bubba this is for you...
"I Miss You"

You used to call me your angel
Said I was sent straight down from heaven
You'd hold me close in your arms
I loved the way you felt so strong
I never wanted you to leave
I wanted you to stay here holding me
I miss you
I miss your smile
And I still shed a tear
Every once in a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go
And I need you to know
I miss you, sha la la la la
I miss you
You used to call me your dreamer
And now I'm living out my dream
Oh how I wish you could see
Everything that's happening for me
I'm thinking back on the past
It's true that time is flying by too fast
I know you're in a better place, yeah
But I wish that I could see your face, oh
I know you're where you need to be
Even though it's not here with me
6-16-08

                            
                     





        When I close my eyes I dream of you.
Can't sleep at night cuz I want to be with you
Don't want to live, don't want to cry
without you by myside.
When I go to sleep at night
I hear your voice inside my head.
I can imagin us together again
I know it will happen; this I know is true
I see you and I together again;
holding hands and laughing out loud
what a beautiful feeling~I wish it were true
but I am only dreaming...


DREAMING OF YOU!


I wonder...
I wonder if your happy, Looking down on us
I wonder why you left us
On that bright and sunny day
I wonder if you laughed
When I ran into the door
I wonder what you did
When I said my head was sore
I wonder if your heart grew bigger
Because your love is so sincere
I wonder why you left us here to cry
And learned how to use your new wings
And learned how to fly
I just wonder???

Love you always n forever,
Poohbear
 


I noticed how beautiful
the sky was the other day,
and then I realized...
it's because
YOU'RE UP THERE!




 




They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal,
But neither time nor reason,
Will change the way we feel,
For no-one knows the heartache,
That lies behind our smiles,
No-one knows how many times,
We have broken down and cried,
We want to tell you something,
So there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without



                                  

           
                    

Thank you so much
Lisa




Made by Alexis Chipman
12 yrs. old
10-11-07

              

                                                                           






                                                           
We made it to Disney baby!!!        


We knew you were with us!!!


8/07


Look at Kady's face! she is SO your child!





                                                                           

Our PRINCESSes...

   





Alexis made this one 10-7-07

Alexis has been mesing around with some pictures and made 
this picture and was so proud of it 
I wanted to add it... 

this is Alexis most favorest picture of her and her Dad, 
It was the very last father daughter dance 
they got to attend together..





May,1 2007
Jenn and I went to cemetary today and planted flowers 
and did mulch,
It was a beuitiful
day
 and we actually had alot of fun...
after we where done edging 
we noticed it ended up being
the shape of a HEART!!!
 I am so proud of myself
for the way it looks I wanted to share it with everyone!


THANK YOU SO MUCH JENN... 
YOU ARE THE BESTEST FRIEND ANYONE COULD ASK FOR 
AND I COULDN'T HAVE DONE THIS 
WITHOUT YOU!







                                 


                             

April 21, 2007

The girls had a blast... HUGE step for us
I know you where watching up above
laughing at us!
  
OUR MUDDY GIRLS!!!



                                 









One Year...

It seems like just yesterday, you were in my arms
Yet,
A lifetime ago, that you held me in your arms
I miss you so very much
you are ALL I can think of
not really sure how I made it this far without you by my side
I try everyday to put that smile apon my face
when I am truly dying inside...




You left without a warning
One year ago today
Not even saying good-bye
and I can't seem to stop
asking why?
Nothing will ever be the same
The house is so empy without you here
we were to grow old together
and push each other in our wheelchairs
I didn't see this coming
it hit me by surprise
When you left this world
a BIG part of me died
and I will never be the same
I'll sit and wait and NEVER give up
Until we are together again
for all Eternity
Krista


                                              

           
   Please keep his memory alive and share stories under Tributes so that as Our girls get older they will have this to look back on forever and never forget, and when they have children someday they can take there children to this site and see all the love everyone had for Bubba. Please light a candle before you go...


Bubba had so much love for his family! He was a big time Mama's boy and would do anything for his dad and brothers...Family ALWAYS came first no matter what...









IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY
AND MEMORIES WERE A LANE
I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN
TO BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN
NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE
YOU WERE GONE BEFORE I KNEW IT
AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY
MY HEART STILL ACHES WITH SADNESS
AND SECRET TEARS STILL FLOW
WHAT IT MEANT TO LOSE YOU
NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW"

Author Unknown

       
                         
                                                       
       
                                                            
                                  
                                                                          
                                               

     Bubba was such a cute little boy with his curly blond hair and chubby cheeks, but man did that boy have a temper, when he would get upset he would just drop to the floor screaming. Bubba was always into something, when he was in preschool he "blew up" the toliets and was removed from that school. (as Kady did when she was 3) Bubba is a huge animal lover, his mom told me that on numerous occasions he would come home with all kinds of animals, one time he came with a bucket of snakes!!!. 

                    
          

                                           


     

    

Bubba and his older brother John were always doing things together and thought they were very sneaky kids, like when they caught  there parents closet on fire because they wanted to play with a lighter, then tryed to hide the huge burn mark in the floor, or when they decided to sneak into there Grandfathers backseat of his car and play with matches and caught that on fire as well. I can only imagin the trouble those boys got into. (switches...OUCH)



         All the scars he had were many great stories to him that he told me about over and over. Like the one on his arm that I guess was very bad, that him and John told there mom, that he fell, when actually they were playing with knifes; that was alot of stitches... John and Bubba were unlike any other brothers I have ever seen, the love for John was unbeatable, They did everything together, when John got his first steady girlfriend Bubba was so very jealous because the new girl took all the time away from him. The things those boys did together, all I can say is wow!! I remember when they got sprayed by a skunk walking in the woods, they came walking back to the house and said "mom I think he got sprayed" it was the worst smell ever! They were always there for one another no matter what, John always came first.


                                                                                             





   
Bubba always wanted to try sports so his parents always put him in them; he never lasted more then a few days, His main love were bikes, he could take a box full of parts of ATVs, street bikes what ever and turn that box of parts into something you could ride down the road it was amazing. When I first met Bubba I walked in to his garage and about fell over! That one car garage had so many parts and boxes of parts and bikes it was unreal, you literally had to step on the parts to get anywhere!!! He was in that garage all the time, he would of stayed in there 24/7 if you'd of let him. People were always bringing there bikes over for him to look at, it was kind of a "side" job that he loved! Later in life every Friday Bubba and his older brother Larry and a few friends would go riding. He would get done working early get ready and away they would go until early the next morning, it didn't matter if it was raining, snowing or freezing outside, they would go! It was his passion. He would come home so muddy that he would have to strip down to his boxers on the porch before even coming in the house. He would wake me up and tell me all the fun he had and what stupid things him and his brother would do and all the "cool" crashes. There were times he would not even go to work if it was nice out just to go riding. He gave his passion of bikes to our girls, he taught them how to ride (which made me so nervous) One time when Alexis was only one he took her on his 3-wheeler and was doing "donuts" just on two wheels, that girl laughed and laughed and kept saying "Daddy faster faster" I will remember that always He would take them and all the neighbor kids around the block all the time. Last year the day before Thanksgiving 2005 we had to pick his mom up from the airport and we had a bad snow storm, do you think he went to get her? Noway! he had to get that bike out and play, the roads were so bad at times he would get on that bike and go up and down the main roads, he loved the thrill. When we were younger we road those things every where, He would come pick me up and then  take me back to his house, every time I would get to drive I would hit every mud puddle I saw,  we would laugh and laugh for hours. One day after school, a bunch of us went to the trails and it was really mudy and he got this bright idea that he could fly threw this HUGE thick nasty mud, half way threw the front tire sunk and the back tires went straight up  along with him, his head was stuck in the mud it took 3 people to get him and the bike out!!! wish I had my camera that day...

                             




                    
                                                            <3 thank you meghan <3  

               


Feels like a hundred years,
I still can't believe you're gone
So I'll stay up all night
with these bloodshot eyes
while these walls surround me
with the story of our life...




                                                      


           
I met Bubba in 1990 our freshman year thru a friend, we became very close friends very fast, He started coming over alot thru out the summer and was there durning a very difficult time in my life. He would bring me over to his house and I clicked very well with his family; in the begining I rememmber sitting on the couch and his mom walkin in from the store saying "Joe is your girlfriend gonna eat with us?" man, he stood up so fast and yelled "she is just my friend!!!!! They all new  better. Late at night when everyone at his house was sleeping (this is because he didnt want anyone to know he was talking to a girl) we would talk on the phone and he was so cute because he couldnt come right out and say "I like you" so he would talk about Fred and Wilma Flinstone and how they loved Orange crush pop, that was his waying of saying he had a crush on me. thru out the years we would see orange crush pop and get it for the other one or anything flinstones, it was so funny to us years later. 
    
                                                                 

                                     

    Our sophmore year in school we had english class together and we would always get in trouble for talking and me for playing with his long curly hair, finally one day our english teacher Mrs. Jennings had written on the chalk board that the subject of the day was to get Joe and Krista FINALLY together. Needless to say it worked and we have been together ever since. We did everything together, it was always the two of us, John and his best friend Donnie. We were complete opposites but it worked really well.      

        



     Bubba was a very intimidating person, he looked very scary with his bald head and tattoos, but if you knew him he was a very big teddy bear, a kid at heart. Bubba loved cartoons, esp. Sponge Bob that was his all time favorite. Bubba would get on the floor and play barbies with the girls, each morning I had to be at work before the girls had to be at school, every morning he would get them up make sure they matched and did there hair, even curled it! He wanted to know how to french braid, because the girls liked having that done to there hair, so Alexis and myself taught him how to do this with one of those big barbie heads and he learned how, he was so proud of himself! This is a side of Bubba alot of people didnt see. Bedtime for the girls was always so irritating to me, I would tuck them in and he would come in after me and lay in bed with those girls for hours, I would let this go on for awhile and once I would yell  he would leave one girls room and enter the other, this went on almost every single night. I think that is something they miss so very much. To this day I have no idea what they talked about and I hope it is something they will never forget. Bubba was a family man, a completly differant person behind closed doors, He was a one of a kind person.





   Throughout the years we had so much fun pretty much growing up together, we would go to the races (atv) and he taught me how to ride them, well kind of. We taught each other alot about life, love and friendship. We planned on being together forever right from the start. Yes we had our share of fights who doesn't but it never lasted that long. I miss him with every thing I am, I still can't believe he is gone, I refuse to except this maybe i am just not ready to, not really sure if I ever will be able to. I have never been alone in my life, never had to deal with any kind of issues on my own. I am not really sure what to do with myself when I get so upset, he was the only one to ever pick me up and tell me things would be ok, he was the one that would help me work through what ever was going on he just made it better, now I am alone so confused, I am completly lost with out him. I love him with every single breath I take and will continue to do so for always and forever


I believe Bubba is up in heaven on the badest Harley ever made with HUGE smile upon his face flying free...

                           



       Bubba is and always will be the love of my life, I thank God everyday that I at least got to spend the time I did with him. Some people never know the TRUE meaning of love, luckily I had that in my life for 15 years, from the minute I met him. No one could ever replace what we had, and so many wish they had what we did, even if it was for only a minute. Bubba taught me how to be be the person I am today, he taught me to stand my own ground and what the true meaning of "love" is, he was my best friend and no one knew me like he did, he could finish my  sentences, he always knew what I was thinking and always could bring a smile to my face. I miss him more then anyone could ever imagin, the day he left me he took part of me with him yet left me with so much. I promised him that day that I would make him proud. It is just so hard to go on with out him, but someday (not soon enough) I will be in his arms again!!! When it is my time I know he will be there waiting for me with open arms and give me the biggest hug! I LOVE YOU my sweet angel. Luv,"B"


Bubba loved to go fishing, the 4 of us always went fishing and at times he would only take the girls to go fishing... He would "hang out" with his brothers and friends and go night fishing also... It was very relaxing to him, he could sit there for hours even if he didnt catch a thing.






Tributes and Condolences
I wonder...   / Alexis Chipman (daughter)
I wonder...I wonder if your happy, Looking down on usI wonder why you left usOn that bright and sunny dayI wonder if you laughedWhen I ran into the doorI wonder what you didWhen I said my head was soreI wonder if your heart grew biggerBecause your lo...  Continue >>
give me a sign   / Me
Where do I begin? I thought I was doing what I suppose to do! I thought this what all right and you made all this happen but as the days go by I am doing nothing but questing myself and the choices I have made. I never thought I would feel like that ...  Continue >>
5YRS.  / KERRI BISHMAN (FAMILY FRIEND )
Where to start...It will 5 yrs tomorrow the HEAVENS gained an ANGEL.I recall the phone call so clearly in my head. Your brother John was cryin so hard I couldnt understand him. I then finaly got the news.I was in shockbut tryin' to be strong for John...  Continue >>
I'm sorry, I didn't know   / Gary Chipman (Cousin)
It's been a long time. We lost contact long ago but I always will remember the fun times we all had in Lincoln Park. I'm sorry for your loss Krista and girls. I never new that Uncle Larry passed too. I will always cherish the great times we had as ki...  Continue >>
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY   / Krista Chipman (wife)
To my angle husband      10 yrs ago today we walked down the isle and said "I DO" " till death do us part" well the death came =(       in my heart you will always be my husband a...  Continue >>
I miss u  / JORDAN CHIPMAN (Niece)    Read >>
7 MORE DAYS....  / KRISTA (FOREVER WIFE )    Read >>
odd day.  / Aleixs Chipman (daughter)    Read >>
to my best friend... 1,460 days since u left me  / Krista     Read >>
Missed everyday!  / Wayne (cbleguy) Spencer (Best Friend )    Read >>
christmas will never be the same...  / Alexis Chipman (Daughter)    Read >>
MISSIN YOU  / KRISTA     Read >>
just saying hello <3  / Lexx Chipman (daughter)    Read >>
not a day goes by....  / Krista (wife)    Read >>
bad day .  / Alexis Chipman (daughter)    Read >>
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Bubba  




                               



                                


As a Daughter and Wife, I lost a father and Husband
As a father and Husband, a Daughter and A Wife-
If the choice was mine I'd rather
Had not lost either one.

I do not know where I come from
Or where I am to go.
True, this fate is less than some
And more than some can know.
My Daughers and Wife - you both I miss
But we shall meet someday
In the kingdom where angels kiss
To chase the clouds away 

Eric Allison
3-25-07







Thanks again Brandy, this is beautiful



     When our first daughter Alexis came into the world, we had both just turned 19 years old, We were very scared but so excited, He gave me cards durning the whole pregnacy and each one was signed "the babies" Thank goodness we only had 1!!!! Bubba wanted a little girl so very badly, he always said he never wanted a boy in fear that child would end up like he was. He got his wish and on April 7, 1995 @ 5:34 p.m. Alexis was born, he was the happiest I think I ever saw him when he held her for the first time, he had a smile from ear to ear with tears of joy in his eyes. He wanted to be the first one to do everything with her, change her, feed her ect. ect. He picked out her going home dress, he was so proud of that little blue and white dress. however he wasnt all that great at getting up at night time. One time she was up crying and he jumped out of bed not because she was crying but because the trash man was out front and he thought someone was getting his bikes, that became a huge joke throughout the years.



     The two of them did everything together, from going to eat dinner then a movie (I wasnt aloud going) to him taking just her to go fishing, just drive around and listen to music. She would sit with him in the garage and help him work on the bikes, they would cook us dinner together. You could say Alexis had him wrapped around her finger, she asked she got! It could be 11 at night and if she wanted a candy bar or what ever she would just look at him and say please daddy and the next thing I knew he was puting on his shoes!! One day he came home from work with a big screen TV she said Oh please can I have that in my room? (mind you she just got a new TV 1 week before hand) Lets just say Alexis still has the biggest TV in her room!!! They would lay in her bed at night and watch movies, I would sit and just listen to them laugh and laugh.

     Throughout the years when the boys would start to call they would race to the phone, if he got it first he would give who ever was on the other end such a hard time, and if it was a boy he would tell them they could talk to her if they gave him money the next day at school, and the next time they called he would double that money because he never got the money from the last time, man would she get so embarassed, he would pick up the phone and but in her conversations, it was a big game to him.

                                                              




          Bubba had lost special people in his life and always said they left signs to him such as the BLUE JAY! One day Alexis was sitting out front on the steps just drawing with chalk and this butterfly just came and landed on her finger... 
                                           

We think this was his sign to her...



Bubba was always there for Alexis, they shared a bond that was unique, she could talk to him about EVERYTHING, he wasn't scared to answer any thing she asked. Last new years he let her have a party and all the girls just loved Alexis' dad, they were in the basement making up a dance that were going to do in the talent show, he actually went down there and helped them do it. Unfortunately he wasn't there for the talent show and those 3 girls honored him in the beginning of that dance, it was just beautiful I of course was in tears...
 









     Bubba got his second wish on March 15, 2000 yet with alittle twist, it was another girl that is exactly like him! Kaitlyn "Kady" Renee Chipman was born!!! he picked out her name Kaitlyn but decided to call her Kady with that spelling. Once again he wanted to do everything, he was so happy to have 2 girls!!! little did we know at that time Kady was just like him, like getting in trouble at daycare for exploding the toilets, throwing temper fits, being oh so sneaky and it's Kady way or no way. You just look at Kady and see her daddy. He taught her how to ride 3-wheelers and fish. They had such a love for Sponge Bob, if it was on you knew they would be together layin in the bed or snuggled up on the floor, both of them wearing there "spongebob boxers"



Kady was daddys little side kick, she did everything he did, she didn't get how come daddy could walk around shirtless and she couldn't. Bubba taught her so many things, such as music for being only 6 that girl loves ALL music esp. hard rock, they use to jam in the living room and "head bang together anytime country or any slow songs come on she yells because she doesn't want to listen to that "hillbilly" music, she wants to JAM!!!!


       Bubba would love to teach Kady sayings, and at a young age she would go around saying these things her daddy taught her. Bubba was a sub-contracter laying carpet and had a loud van, any time a loud car would drive by Kady would run to the door in hopes it was her daddy, eventually she new his van and by the time he was in drive she already had door open waving to him as he drove by to park. Bubba loved cooking us dinner he always one of the girls with him, if it was Kady you knew it becasue when it was time to sit at the table neigher one were that hunger becasue they had to "check" the food to make sure it was good, they checked it so much they were full!! Bubba loved late night snacks and gave that hunger to Kady, she would sneak out of her room and say "but daddy I'm starvin" and he always gave in to her. Kady was such a daddys girl...





The Love Bubba showed for his daughters is like no other, I use to sit and watch them and sometimes it brought tears to my eyes, just seeing the love they all had for one another. The inside jokes they shared and so much picking on the mommy.. I miss all that so much. Bubba was such a wonderful father. 







    When you are havin a bad day and feeling sad Please think of the good, fun, O so silly times we all had with Bubba. He could ALWAYS make you giggle in some sort of way. Bubba was such a goof. I am sure that everyone has there own "Bubba story" that when they think of it makes them laugh and please share them with us to give us a little hahaha sounds like Bubba.. I thought I would share some of our's with all of you...
How to fix a boo boo... ductape works everytime!
* *this is because he used razors at work all the time to cut the carpet and his fingers would sometimes get in the way!**         
    
     One time at dinner the four of us were eating (I was little upset with him for some reason this day) and he got this bright idea to fling butter at me from the new butter container, that butter hit me right in the face, lets just say it turned into this huge butter war between the 4 of us, butter was everywhere we used all the butter!!!! it took forever to get all the butter out of us girls hair. We all laughed so hard I think we all had tears that night.


Stupid movies...Amos and Andrew (his fav.)
Love for skulls and flames
Bubba loved Jewel the singer, he thoguht her voice was that of an angel. Don't hink anyone really knows that
Heart
shaped cakes...Bubba would make these when I was mad at him... I got lots of heart shaped cakes thru out the years!
Wrestling and the Big bad steam roller!!! he would just roll right over you but do you think we could just roll over him it was very difficult..

One night Alexis and myself Dared him that he couldn't put       "A-L-E-X-I-S" in the carpet. Needless to say when we got home from swim classes we opened the door and down the basement steps were tons of carpet letters all over the place. We started laughing and he said "Damn this is really hard why did we have to give her a name with a X and S in her name?"


Bubba was very scared of heights... I got him to ride a rollercoaster one time and one time only and that boy turned 3 shades of green. Another time his brother was makin fun of him so he got on that ride and the second he got off he got sick! and if it was any kind of ride that went around, just forget that too! yet he loved going to the amusement parks, he would only ride bumper cars and water rides!!

     What a sucker he was, and the girls new it! he would get them up for school and if they didnt want to go he would say "O ok you can just come to work with me today." The girls never asked me anything it was always ask dad he never says "NO"

     Bubba would call my work almost daily and pretend to be some foriegn guy with "special personnal" problems and sometimes I had no clue it was him. He however thought this was so funny.

                                         Bubba was so very clumsy...
This discribes Bubba so well

One day he was laying on the couch not wanting anyone to know he was home. He was all covered up and there was a knock at the door, he jumped up so fast he tripped over his blanket then ran into the wall twice, I was laughing so hard I couldnt even get the door open and here it was alittle kid for the girls. I went into the kitchen and there he laying on the floor holding his toe, when he ran into the wall his foot hit the register and he split his big toe wide open there was blood everywhere!!!!
When we were in highschool he had broken his foot and was on crutches, I was taking him to his next class and there we were walkin in the halls and I have no clue what he did but the crutches broke in two!!! and down he went, he jumped up and looked around hoping no one saw as I stood there laughing so loud a teacher opened her door and yelled at me!
Bubba was always tripping or running into something almost daily. He gave this to Alexis who doe's the same thing so I still get my laughs almost daily...




5-1-07
The girls are havin such a hard time with out you here each and everyday.
They speak of often with Tears in there little eyes
They miss your sweet kisses apon there sweet little cheeks 
and all the big bear hugs goodnight...
You are the light in there eyes
Your are there heart
YOU are their EVERYTHING!
Daddy's girls thru and thru
for all eternity..

Bubba and his dad AKA Pop's/Chubby.

I can't really say I ever met another father/son so much alike. From falling asleep anytime, anywhere to the huge pranksters that they both are. their love for motorcycles was like no other. Chubby has a huge love for motorcycles any kind and he would fix them. At a very young age, when all the other little boys where playing football or baseball Bubba would much rather sit in the garage with his dad and learn to fix bikes. Bubba became so good at it that he had a mini bike fixer upper store in his garage. If he ever had any questions his dad was right there to help him out!
I remember one time Bubba received a letter in the mail from his dad, I read it and of course had no idea what it said it was all in code and Bubba seemed to know exactly what it said.Bubba may not have ever told his dad much but I know he loved him so much and would of done anything for his father. They had there ups and downs when he was younger but he loved his daddy more then anything.
My dad and I wern't close at all and I asked Chubby when I was about 17 if he could be my dad. I remember it like yesterday. he was siting on the living room floor leaning up against the blue couch rolling papers and I sat next to him on the floor and layed my head on his chest and looked up at him... he of course said YES! they are both wonderful men and both mean a great deal to me! I am still close with Chubby, he may live miles away but I know he loves me like the daughter he never had. I love you Pops!


Bubba and his Mom Judy

Bubba was always the biggest mamma's boy I ever met in my life! I would always tease him that he was and he would get all defensive, it was very funny. Bubba cared for his mom so much, when she got sick he was the one to take care of her.He would sit with her at her bedside, take her to the Dr.s when need be. He would do anything for her at any time. He was always worried about his mom. There bond was like no other.
Judy is the most sweet, kindest women I have ever met. The love for her children, there aren't even any words to compare. she always tryed her best to give her boys everything she could. She is truly an amazing person. She had it ruff and I think this is why we grew so close! she knew what I was going threw at times when me and Bubba faught, she had been there. If you were to see me and Judy out you would think we were mother and daughter! There are just so many story's I could go on and on. I know she hurts every single day she walks this earth without her baby boy, I know Bubba would never ever want to see his mom hurt, and I am sure he is with her all the time and wipes her tears away. he loves his mamma and she loves him.
I love you Judy with everything I am, thank you for always standing by me.





      


                 I wonder if you  heard my crys the day you said goodbye? I mean did you realize before you closed your eyes that what you told me was your goodbye?  Did you feel my tears landing on your body? I know you loved me with everything you had, I know deep down you didn't want to leave us, I just wish I could have done something to change the outcome of that day. I relive it everyday with tears in my eyes. Please give me the strengh to forgive myself for not taking you back to the ER. Please let me forgive myself for not granting your wishes. I wanted to grow old with you, I wanted to watch you walk our girls down the isle and become grandparents with you! My life forever changed that Sunday March 26,2006 I am now so imcomplete and the sadness fills my heart, I just do not know how to carry on with out you by myside...




 
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